When You Long for God the Father’s Love to Embrace You

When my husband and I got engaged, his friend Hal thought it was necessary to educate me on the ways of marriage. Hal was schooled in matrimony by his wife from Venezuela, and now that he was no longer wild and free, he considered himself a marital expert of sorts. We were standing in front of my new undecorated house, and Bruce had just helped me unload my many heavy bundles from the car. I was about to fold myself into Bruce’s warm embrace for a big hug when Hal felt it necessary to spoil my moment with sarcastic commentary.

β€œSoon, she will call you, Papi, and you will come running,” he predicted. I bristled at the remark. β€œPapi” is a Spanish term of endearment for Father, but many Hispanic women also use it as a pet name for their husbands.

I looked at Bruce and declared, β€œI promise you, I will never call you Papi.” That was 8 years ago.

I’ve discovered much about the love of the Father by observing my husband. He delights in playing peekaboo with our grandson. He delays judgment when the phone doesn’t ring on his birthday. He dedicates hours at his workbench to fix a beloved toy. He consistently deposits gifts of grace in our lives and never demands anything in return.

When I am heartbroken and ready to give up, Bruce will often reach out to enclose me in His loving arms and say, β€œCome to Papa.”

Friends, we are secure in our Father’s embrace. He loves prodigals and cry babies and spoiled brats alike. He longs to shelter us.

I desperately want to live intimately connected to my Father’s embrace. But, sometimes my greedy heart gets in the way. I am highly distracted by the baubles of this world. I confess I’m great at binge watching HGTV, but frequently fall asleep with my Bible in my lap. Rather than slow down and sit at the feet of the Father, I often run ragged and fail to remember Him. Instead of nuzzling close to my Abba, I spend too much time nursing a bad attitude.

To truly know the Father, I must study His ways and stop demanding my own way:

Don’t love the world’s ways. Don’t love the world’s goods. Love of the world squeezes out love for the Father. Practically everything that goes on in the worldβ€”wanting your own way, wanting everything for yourself, wanting to appear importantβ€”has nothing to do with the Father. It just isolates you from Him. The world and all its wanting, wanting, wanting is on the way outβ€”but whoever does what God wants is set for eternity… Stay with what you heard from the beginning, the original message. Let it sink into your life. If what you heard from the beginning lives deeply in you, you will live deeply in both Son and Father. This is exactly what Christ promised: eternal life, real life! (I John 2:15-17, 24-25 MSG)

I’ve started praying for My Heavenly Father to awaken my senses to His loving embrace. I want to

See the evidences of His goodness and grace.

β€œI would have despaired had I not believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living.” (Psalm 27:13, AMP)

Hear the whisper of His still small voice.

β€œListen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the one who will keep you on track.” (Proverbs 3:6, MSG)

Taste the sweetness of His Word.

β€œHow sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! β€œ (Psalm 119:103).

Smell the fragrance of His sacrifice.

β€œLive a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God.” (Ephesians 5:2, NLT)

Feel the tenderness of His touch.

β€œNevertheless I am continually with You; You have taken hold of my right hand.” (Psalm 73:23, NASB).

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7 Scriptural Love Notes from God

Stepping into the embrace of God’s love gives us peace and confidence. His love wraps around us, holds us close, and keeps us safe in this crazy world.

Our Father God will never demand our love, but He delights in those moments when we crawl up into His lap and cry out β€œPapa.” What are you waiting for? Turn off the television screen and snuggle in close.

Peekaboo, God sees you. Come cozy up close to the Father. Feel the warmth of His embrace.

You are secure in the embrace of God the Father.

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8 Comments

    1. I am so glad to hear that, Elizabeth. I think this is an area that many of us struggle with, but God is such a patient and compassionate Father. He woos us gently.

  1. I grew up with a very angry alcoholic father. It took me a long time to realize God’s fatherliness wasn’t angry, just waiting to pounce on my least infraction. It’s such a comfort to rest in His love which corrects, yes, but with grace.

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