Parched?
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I spoke with an old friend on the phone tonight for just a couple of minutes. We don’t run into each other often, but I’ve known her for over 3 decades. I’ve crossed paths with her in the hallways as a teenager. I’ve sat in her office at work. I’ve chaperoned midnight roller skating parties with her in the youth ministry trenches. I’ve chatted with her and her mom over lunch on a Friday afternoon.
I’ve observed her interact with all sorts of people in so many settings.
I’ve never heard her say an unkind word about anybody.
Her disposition is peaceful. Her life is yielded to Christ.
She’s younger than I am, but I’ve always wanted to be a little like her when I grow up. (I’m still working on that.)
After our conversation, I remembered a thread from the lesson tonight at church. It was actually a “panel discussion” where church members could text in questions on the subject of relationships — based on the sermon this past Sunday.
One of the questions posed: “How do you know that it’s time to end a friendship?”
Our pastor pointed us to Proverbs. He encouraged us to read and reflect on the importance of spending time with people who helped pull us in the right direction.
I did a quick search on “friends” in Proverbs tonight and was reminded that a good friend is like a cool drink of water on a hot day.
Are you parched?
Praise God for friends who strengthen & encourage us, like iron sharpens iron. Thanks for the great post & for hosting, & God bless.
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Lyli – I read this post & had to tell you >> you are surely that kind of friend. You have provided many a refreshing drink to so many of us. I am grateful you shared these words & grateful for you! Praying that you will also be encouraged & refreshed by others today!
What an important question. It’s hard and it’s real. My husband and I have made three cross-state moves during our marriage and I have had long seasons of serious dehydration. The last one just nearly did me in–partially because I let it–but I’ve learned that just because things used to be easy and simple doesn’t mean that they always will and to simultaneously be content and work on pursuing relationships. Thanks for your encouragement this morning.
This is so pertinent for me right now. I’m walking with one friend through a minefield, and my friends behind me are supporting me in prayer and with encouraging words every step of the way. It’s been a beautiful thing. Thanks for sharing this, Lyli. Very relevant to all of us.
Yes, I feel parched some days because friends are rare in my life. My husband and family are my friends because I don’t leave the house much. I would love to find some friends. I know it starts with me and making myself friendly. A lot to think about indeed. Thanks for sharing.