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We were standing in the aisle next to the ice cream freezer at Target when I realized how marrying your opposite can create matrimonial chaos.

I had a hankering for cookies and cream ice cream, but my man was balking at the price. He wanted to know why the size of the container had shrunk while the price had escalated. He huffed and puffed and refused to put the container in our grocery cart.

Seriously? It’s just ice cream. Who cares how much it costs? A girl needs her chocolate fix.

I went home hungry and confused that evening. This was the first of many epic battles over the way we would spend our hard earned dollar.

I grew up in a home where I was the spoiled only child of doting parents. If I asked for a toy, a sparkling new doll always appeared under the Christmas tree. My husband was raised in a family of four where mom stayed home and cut coupons to make ends meet. He wore hand-me-downs and rode a bike purchased at a garage sale.

Money was the monkey in the middle of my marriage. Thankfully, over the course of the last five years, we’ve learned to “play nice” and tame the taunting wild beast called the budget…

I’m sharing “When Marriage is the Monkey in the Middle of Your Marriage” over at Moody’s Start Marriage Right today.

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