Marriage — It’s Not About Me
At 41, I honestly did not think I would ever get married. Nearly a decade had passed since my last date. I chose to not worry about it though. If God wanted me to be a wife, then certainly he would send me a husband.
In early 2008, I partnered with two other singles at my church to start a small group. Our focus was to serve – each month we would put feet to our faith in our community. Our group leader gave me a ride to our first event – we would help organize the monthly clothing drive at our church’s homeless ministry The Refuge. On the way there, we chatted easily and laughed frequently. Was there a spark? “Lord, are you doing something here?” I thought.
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I love this! It is so true, if only more women would realize that marriage is about serving our husbands we would have stronger marriages and thus a stronger nation! Thanks for sharing!
Leah, thanks for stopping by! Jesus came as a servant, so I do think this is one of the keys to a successful marriage. My husband really does better than I do here — he has the gift of helping.